Songs:
Oh Death/
Please Don't Leave Me
In The Wind Tonight
Cheating Songs
Logic And Lies
Goodbye Doesn't Mean Forever.
For the past four years, I have been a part of the Marion Sanctuary and I have shared some fun memories of playing there. Highlights are plenty, Gold Dust Woman really has been a part of my set list, sometimes with Kimberly but most of the time, Julie Gordon sang that song and blistered the competition. The Benefit for Julie last year which gave us the last time the Egads! played together. Colton Thompson deciding to sing Logic And Lies and the countless jams at the end with Phil Bo and Fab Five Freddy Jones. The Blues Jam in September is the cherry on top. Or perhaps the Maury Baker Jam back in 2018.
The building's owner has decided to sell to another entity, which meant that Jim Jacobmeyer had to find a new place and found one across from Coe College on First Avenue in Cedar Rapids. I have shared my songs on a stage which was about six feet wide and perhaps six feet across, not much to have a drum set on stage but perfect for that intimate setting with people. But that small stage was like home to me.
I have been trying to come up a nice finale to end my association on that stage. So I started out with a vocal only of Oh Death, which the crowd kept the time and pace. Then went into Please Don't Leave Me. Six songs for almost 25 minutes on stage and I was the last act to play and sing. Kimberly followed with a couple of karaoke songs, her hubby David did a couple and Mike Frederick, who came out of a year long hibernation, (namely due to working at Cargill) and finished up with a few banjo numbers with Freddy on harp and a fiddle player. All songs were originals except the the first song and Cheating Songs. No blues, hardly any country and plenty of garage rock on acoustic. The finale was Goodbye Doesn't Mean Forever, a song that Nicole Passmore co wrote with me a few years ago. It's a shame she never got around to hear me play live. Ten years ago, she moved down here to be with me and we never did anything musically. She inspired and add some lyrics to a couple songs, Goodbye Doesn't Mean Forever one of them. I don't think she was happy with the end results. The first verse was basically me going back home after returning her back to her home state when things fell apart. The Chorus suggested that perhaps we may return back together, but eventually she found a better man to share her life with. In my case, it made a nice song that I played for the first time live tonight.
Overall, we had the best turnout in over two months. Barb Francisco came out to play and sing, Phil Bo was there, so was Dave Bonham and Mikey Frederick. Plus Kimberly and David too. I suppose looking at the songs I could have done one or two more but Goodbye Doesn't Mean Forever was the final song for me when I played it.
Checkers is starting up their acoustic jams on Thursday with a round robin hosts doing the Thursday night shows. Julie and Dave have one, Lorie Parker will have another and two more spots need to be filled up, I'm guessing Kevin Moore will be one, maybe Kevin Burt the other. If there's any time off, The Artisan will be the first choice.
I have heard that the host band at MOCO have been lousy hosts. A friend wanted to do a cover but the host band didn't know the cover nor didn't want to do that. Perhaps the guys in Rumors can help out. That is if they do know the song or how it goes. I remain drums only when I do the Sunday jam at Rumors. Perhaps if Blues Rox gets their act together they can do medley jam, just like the Lost In America band did last Sunday. It was a misunderstanding. Evan Stock Band has always been a great band to play music with.
It's been a year ago that FB and Company did the Waubeek Jam. Maki says perhaps June if we all get vaccinated. But till spring processing gets done, I won't be doing much jams anyway. Except weekends only.
Ryan has reached out to Julie about starting up Dreams Of Arcadia. I can see Julie signing off to do this, if Ryan keeps his political views to himself. They do work together quite well, but Julie has Dave and the electric band and perhaps something with me involved. But then again, I'm the most stubborn mule ass crabb dragging my feet on that. She has great musicians, I just happen to be dating her.
Speaking of which. While I posted pictures of past gigs and open mics, I have been accused of hamming it up to get attention. Which really did hurt me since it came from my fave singer. This doesn't come from insecurity or wanting recognition, these photos from the past is a reminder that I did make the stage and sing and play and most of the pictures that I repost mean a lot to me. The picture from last year caught me in a perfect time and place. There's a 30 year empty place between the Tyrus 1984 gig and the 2015 Wrigleyville jam. I did mention to Julie that it took me over thirty five years to be comfortable on stage just to allowed to have somebody take photos of me. I can also quit in a second if this doesn't appease to her.
When you have depression and be your own worst critic, the last thing you need is to have somebody tear you apart, especially the one that is your significant other. Given the fragility of my own critique at these gigs, it gives the feeling of me against the world and does figure into even starting up new projects like the AcoustaCrabbies. Sometimes, when you say something at the wrong time, it is duly noted. It might have been her way of saying I'm spending too much time on social media. Sometimes speaking in jest, we might take it the wrong way and we'll punish them for that. I may not be Kyle or even Guitar Dave but I do have my own way of playing music and it works for me. We all are guilty for saying the wrong things. Perhaps the next time, it's better to delete the comment rather than hit the post button. Capture and celebrate the moment, and not damn it. One day, we will not be around to create the good music and vibes. Even if it looks celebratory of oneself.
Farewell Marion Sanctuary. You'll be missed.